haha.
Sounds JUST LIKE my friend. It seems like she doesn't want him to have any fun, unless she approves. For instance, she hated his ski-doo, never went on it, but wouldn't let him go out alone either. So he'd invite me out and we'd ride around on it all day. I'd pay for gas, or take him out to eat for my appreciation. Well one day I noticed he hadn't called me to go out for a few months. I didn't want to appear that I was inviting myself, so I didn't bring it up. Then we were at lunch one day, and it was brought up. He became silent, and I asked what was up. He said "Well, she made me sell it." They didn't need the money, she just didn't think he should have it anymore. Because SHE didn't like it.
As for time, same thing. Once I had an extra front row ticket to GNR, and invited him to come for free. Long story short, she wouldn't let him come out. She wanted "Quality time." I asked him the next week what they did that night...."Sat on the couch and watched TV."
Another time we were out on that ski-doo and the day ran long. We ended up coming home around 6 PM. She was home from work around 5, and when he wasn't there, she became furious. We had a process once we brought it back, that we would clean it thoroughly of seawater, then buff it out. So we're out back doing this, and he goes in, then returns and says "She's so mad bro, she won't even talk to me." I asked why and again...."It was HER time" that was being intruded upon. I hated to do it, but I had to run inside to get my change of clothes, and there she was, mad as hell, sulking in the bedroom like a child.
Another time we were out on the other side of town, maybe an hour away. We were looking at houses into the early evening. She called his phone non stop. When are you coming home? Where are you? What's taking so long? Over and over. It was incredible. I noticed he was lying "We're on the freeway now." And then again to me..."She's pissed man."
The final nails were when she wouldn't let him come to our going away dinner party in St. Pete. The restaurant was 5 minutes from his house, but she didn't want to go, so he couldn't. The other was when he was going to meet us for lunch, and pick us up from the muffler shop before hand. We drove ONE car down there, in anticipation that he would be arriving at noon to take us to lunch. Then he called last minute and said "She won't let me go." She had come home from work early and he was not to leave the house. So we had to sit in the muffler shop while the work was being done and not have lunch. After that, I defriended her on FB. and want nothing more to do with her ever again. I just think she's a lousy person.
I know I'll probably never see my friend again, but that's his fault, not mine. I talk to him about once a week, and he loves the west, wants to come out, but I know he never will. And even if he did, I know it would be with her, and I wouldn't spend one second with that lame bitch.
