I don't mind if the picture doesn't "look" sexy per se, as I think there's a difference between being "sexy" and being "hot", as in really good-looking. If you look at last year's top 25, a lot of those head shots just look like really happy men with great smiles. That's one of the reasons I'm so torn. I think he looks really smokin' in the kitty picture, but he's not smiling. If any of these pictures were inserted into the "lineup" of last year's top 25, would they stand out among the crowd? Would a stranger say, "oh yeah, this guy -- the motorcycle rider and mountain climber who quotes from The Little Prince and looks like that -- he's the winner!"
jill there is your answer you need a picture of him smiling or laughing that looks candid. hubby is hot enough that his hunk appeal will come through in just about any shot, but you need one that says I would want to spend time with this fun sexy guy.